I realized that wisdom is preferable to folly, ¹  just as light is preferable to darkness:

But if they do not have self-control, let them get married. For it is better to marry than to burn with sexual desire. ¹ 

do you pay attention to the one who is finely dressed and say, ¹  “You sit here in a good place,” ²  and to the poor person, “You stand over there,” or “Sit on the floor”? ³