1 Timothy 5:4-5

5:4 But if a widow has children or grandchildren, they should first learn to fulfill their duty toward their own household and so repay their parents what is owed them. For this is what pleases God. 5:5 But the widow who is truly in need, and completely on her own, has set her hope on God and continues in her pleas and prayers night and day.

1 Timothy 5:9

5:9 No widow should be put on the list unless she is at least sixty years old, was the wife of one husband,